There once was a little girl who had a bad temper. Her mother gave her a bag of nails and told her that every time she lost her temper, she must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.

The first day the girl had driven 37 nails into the fence.

Over the next few weeks, as she learned to control her anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. She discovered it was easier to hold her temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally the day came when the girl didn't lose her temper at all. She told her mother about it and the mother suggested that the girl now pull out one nail for each day that she was able to hold her temper.

The day passed and the young girl was finally able to tell her mother that all the nails were gone. The mother took her by the hand and led her to the fence. She said, "You have done well, my daughter, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one." You can put a knife in a person and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say "I'm sorry", the wound is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as physical one.

Antara 9 Siti yang patut dicontohi:

1) Siti Khadijah- Beliau merupakan isteri Rasulullah s.a.w yg melahirkan anak2 Rasulullah, setia dan menyokong Rasulullah walaupun ditentang hebat oleh org2 kafir dan musyrik, menghantarkan makanan kpd Baginda ketika Baginda beribadat di Gua Hira’.

2) Siti Fatimah- Anak Rasulullah yg tinggi budi pekertinya.Sangat kasih dan setia kpd suaminya Ali karamallahu wajhah walaupun Ali miskin.Tidur berkongsikan 1 bantal dan kdg2 berbantalkan lengan Ali.Rasulullah pernah b’kata aku takkan maafkan kamu wahai Fatimah sehinggalah Ali maafkan kamu.

3) Siti A’ishah- Beliau isteri Rasulullah yg paling romantik.Sanggup berkongsi bekas makanan dan minuman dgn Rasulullah.Di mana Nabi s.a.w minum di situ beliau akan minum menggunakan bekas yg sama

4) Siti Hajar- Isteri Nabi Ibrahim yg patuh kpd suami dan suruhan Allah.Sanggup ditinggalkan oleh Nabi Ibrahim atas suruhan Allah demi kebaikan.Berjuang mencari air utk anaknya Nabi Ismail (Pengorbanan seorg ibu mithali).

5) Siti Mariam- Wanita suci yg mmg pandai menjaga kehormatan diridan mempunyai maruah yg tinggi sehingga rahimnya dipilih oleh Allah s.w.tutk mengandungkan Nabi Isa.

6) Siti Asiah- Isteri Firaun yg tinggi imannya dan tidak gentar dgn ujian yg dihadapinya drpd Firaun Laknatullah.

7) Siti Aminah- Wanita mulia yg menjadi ibu kandung Rasullullah. Mendidik baginda menjadi insan mulia.

8.) Siti Muti’ah- Isteri yg patut dicontohi dan dijanjikan Allah syurga untuknyakerana setianya kpd suami, menjaga makan minum, menyediakan tongkat utkdipukul oleh suaminya sekiranya layanannya tidak memuaskan hati,berhias dgn cantik utk tatapan suaminya sahaja.

9 ) Siti Zubaidah- Wanita kaya dermawan yg menjadi isteri Khalifah Harun Al-Rashid.Sanggup membelanjakan semua hartanya utk membina terusan utkkegunaan org ramai hanya niat kerana Allah s.w.t.

Happy 7th Anniversary

MAY ALLAH BLESS YOUR MARRIAGE (SIS JLO & BRO GARY)

i'm CONFUSED again

GOD! 'm confused again...again and again. All this have to stop. GOD! Please give me the strength to face all this. Things tend to get out of hand. I may look cool outside but in me no one knows. At times i juz wanna to end up everything and start afresh like a new born baby. At times i do wanna accept all this sincerely. WHAT SHUD I DO? I'm not strong. I HATE this feeling. GOD! Please lead me to the right path where i can strive for happiness. I will GOD, i will accept all the obstacles that was sent down to me, i will accept it with my sincere heart.

Changi Beach

Yesterday.... me, Dear, my mama, Dear's mak, mak's fren and Dear's little notty nephew went to Changi Beach. Its been a long time we did not go to Changi. Dear, told me to bring my running shoe as he want me to go jogging with him. *Sigh* i love running but i hate those aching that im gonna have the following day. Well, luck is on my side as Dear have forgotten to bring his running shoe. Hahahaa....Next time ya my Dear. *winkz*

Actually, i met Dear and the rest at Tanah Merah bus stop. We took bus service no.2 to Changi Village and we had our brunch.

Later in the afternoon, mama came alone. Poor mama, i tot she will be coming with her sis. I really appreaciate her of coming and join in the fun.

Before changing, Dear did his workout and ''pendek'' will be his instructor.

Dear and "pendek'' digging the sand. Pic taken from far.

''pendek all wet''. He look cute with that swimming trunk.

blur ''pendek''

Dear, covered half of his body wif sand.

Nice pose.

look at him...he's actually pointing at the aeroplane.

and he's half buried by us.

Love this pic... dun get cheated, im the one who took this pix, not Dear.

Sentosa

Dear brought me to Sentosa with his troop on Deepavali. I really enjoyed myself.

Time to bury Dear.

Upclose!

His whole body

I enjoyed doing this to him.

After changing, Dear's colleague drive us to Harbour Front as Dear parked his bike at Vivo. Before heading to Vivo to get the bike we went to the food court and had our dinner. Well, as usual me and my N73 taking our pix.

Loving Dinoor

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